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9 Development goals for work – The personality you need in order to be successful at work

Development goals for work

Yes, it’s important to develop at work in order to find opportunities for yourself. But it’s also important to focus on development goals for work. In this post, that interpretation is basically how to get out of your own way and prepare for battle. 

No one talks about personality and let’s be honest this can ultimately lead you to success or to your downfall at work. It’s not a matter of changing your personality. It’s about being mindful of how you present yourself and receive others while working.

In my first position in corporate America, I learned how I needed to mold myself in a way that allows me to be myself but also follows this new workplace culture. Newsflash I’m a first-generation American and the only person in my family that has an office job, so it was definitely a culture shock.

After reading this post I’ll let you in on the secrets of how to be yourself and be accepted in an office environment.

This post is all about development goals for work.

Development Goals for work

Development Goals for Work

1) Get a thick skin (the most important of the 9 development goals)

Now I’m not saying that it is ok for any environment to emotionally abuse you and that’s not what I’m referring to when I say get a thick skin.

Getting a thick skin basically means that you have to understand that in a new environment you know close to nothing. There are a lot of egos floating around and if you’re focused on defending your pride and how others perceive you then you’re not focused on your work.

All that matters is finding a solution to the problem. It doesn’t matter how much different individuals contributed to finding a solution, you are a gear in the machine.

You will also find yourself in moments where people are confronting you with an aggressive nature. Again that is not ok. However, in order to live in peace you have to see that they’re stressed and taking it out on you and that’s their problem.

2) Focus on what’s in front of you

Any job will have its peak moments where you’re trying to fly by the seat of your pants. Well my friend it’s time to fly daym it. Focus on what’s in front of you and do not pay any attention to anything else.

I’ve personally worked with individuals that are not able to do this. They rather stop and reprocess what we’re working on when a tight deadline is around the corner. You can’t focus on the foundation of a problem when you’re urgently trying to complete something. It makes you miss your deadline and it’s all about deadlines in the real world.

For example, let’s say you’re constructing a wall in a house, and the pipe bursts. You can’t keep focusing on the wall or go back to the blueprint to figure out where each pipe is laid out, you need to turn off the water and handle that one pipe burst. Priorities are easily set if you just figure out your deadlines.

3) Get good at being able to tell who will help you

You will come across many different personalities at work. You will find people that say “let me know if you need anything” and once you come around they disappear or feel insulted that you have asked for help. There are people that go on and on about how busy they are, letting you know they have time for nothing else. And then there are people who either offer help when you look like you’re drowning or will only offer help if you specifically ask for it.

It’s important to know who is who in your work environment. When you’re in the middle of a crisis the last thing you want is to waste your time trying to figure out who on your team you can count on.

Get to know everyone, their work ethic, and their level of generosity when it comes to sharing their time. This will save you from many little panic attacks.




4) Vent to a diary

Having a bad day is inevitable. It happens to everyone and that’s ok. Just get a diary and write it all down.

Do not share your negative thoughts with your colleagues unless you feel like you can trust them 1000% and even then you want to be cautious with what you share. The truth is that you’re being judged at every moment and you do not want your vulnerability to be used against you.

That’s why having a diary is so important. You need to vent but you also need to protect yourself.

5) Share your complaints with your manager in a structured and data-supported way

It’s important to have an open dialogue with your manager. Where you share what your expectations are and what your experiences have been like. It’s also important to share what’s bothering you so that your problems don’t eat you up inside.

However, if you have an issue with something in your work environment make sure you sure that information is in a way that is data supported. Maybe you feel like there’s too much on your plate, well track everything you do and share this information with your boss. Maybe they can help you prioritize what’s on your plate. You may be unhappy with your pay, well research how much your work is being valued by other companies.

When you structure your complaints in this format you have proof that what is negatively affecting you is reasonable and they can assist you with nailing down the solution.

6) Get friendly with everyone and personal with no one

Everyone wants to enjoy their lives. No one wants to be around a Debbie Downer or someone negative. Everyone wants to be able to enjoy themselves, and the more they enjoy being around you, the more they’ll want to work with you. And this leads to receiving more opportunities.

Make sure to keep the conversations with your coworkers light and enjoyable but also don’t get too personal. Too personal means sharing all of the things in your life you’re battling outside of work. The problem with being too personal is people will look at you differently. They’ll either avoid working with you in order to protect you or maybe they think you won’t be able to handle it. Also, they may be thinking does this person share everything with everyone and that could lead to concerns. They will even question if they could share anything with you, and that gets in the way of building trust.

So be personable with everyone and keep it light.




7) Strive to impress yourself 

You are your own worst critic. Use this to your advantage. If you’re able to impress yourself, you’ll surely be able to impress others. If you’re not impressed by your own work then what makes you think anybody else will be?

Sometimes we get so caught up trying to win over someone else’s approval that we don’t even try to achieve our own.

Learn to trust yourself and follow your gut instincts, they have superpowers. Also, this gets you into the mindset of working for yourself and if you’re a future world leader like me then it’s imperative to start believing in yourself.

8) Set your routines

Routines are amazing because they push you to get things done when you don’t feel like it. We all have days when we want to do absolutely nothing. If you’re in the habit of taking those days off then you’ll continually stunt your growth.

More times than not we want to do absolutely nothing. We just want to rest and take it easy and that lifestyle gets in the way of you being able to complete anything. Don’t let this happen to you.

Make sure you set up a morning routine for yourself and set up routines for yourself throughout the day where possible and where helpful. For example, I love outlining these posts early in the morning, when I’m on the bus, and on my way to work. Now even when I’m super duper tired, it doesn’t matter I outline my blog posts because it gives me peace.

9) Continue to adjust your expectations and habits based on what happens

So we’re ever-evolving beings in an ever-evolving world. That means you can not be rigid with yourself. You’re going to have to consistently adapt and adjust based on what’s happening around you. So don’t get too comfortable. In fact when you do get comfortable purposely change something so that you’re able to rock the boat.

And believe me, it’ll never get easier. I’m constantly learning something new at work and it’s constantly painful but I keep reminding myself how much I’ve expanded. I’m in a completely new world from where I was one year ago and that’s a great thing.

It means the hardest things in the world are becoming easier for me, and as I learn and continue to gain experience that learning curve is getting smaller and smaller. Eventually, you’ll be at the top of the mountain you decided to climb.




This post was all about development goals for work.

Development Goals for Work



Categories: All Blogs, Professional

9 Bad Azz Professional Development items you need to include in your Goal Plan

Professional Development

Alright, let’s get specific. In order to conquer the art form of professional development you need to be specific about the steps you take when pursuing a goal. You also need to know why and how these specific items should be laid out. Well, this post is going to rock your world with that information. 

I used to live in la la land. All I wanted was to be a star and not think twice about how to get there. Living that way eventually led me to abandon my dreams. Soon all I did was dedicate my time and energy to work and I was reaching crazy accolades in corporate America. Is it that I wanted to win in this new world? No, I was too busy going after it to dream about it.

Here’s the plan. In life, you have to focus on what you’re doing not what’s given to you or what you want. It’s all about putting in the work. And sure that sounds easier said than done but after reading this post you’ll discover that it’s actually very easy to do.

It’s way easier than waiting around for a dream to come true.

This post is all about professional development.

Professional Development

Professional Development

1) Define how many hours you have to dedicate to this area of your life- block it on your calendar

Time can either be your greatest enemy or your best ally. Define for yourself how many hours a day you actually have in order to dedicate your time to your goals. Be specific!

We all need time to wake up and that includes getting ready, eating, and pulling ourselves out of our beds. Don’t underestimate the amount of time you need. I used to try to schedule some items to complete first thing in the morning but it wasn’t a feasible routine for me.

You also need to make time for your meals, your grooming, your job, commuting, and any other tasks that need to get done during the day. Be realistic. A half-hour to prepare and eat dinner is not enough time.

After you’ve isolated your buckets of time, now you have something you can actually work with. Don’t take time away from the things you have to do to live.

2) Define how you work best- do you need breaks in between projects?

Now you need to understand how you like to work. Are you someone who can work two hours straight or someone that needs to take breaks? How long does it actually take you to get into the flow of things? What do you need to keep you engaged while completing a task?

Personally, I spend three days a week just writing one blog. Day one is spent on the outline and creating the intro. Day two is spent writing the body of the blog. The actual content. Day three is spent reviewing and adding graphics and ads. When I first began writing I tried to do it all in one day but I’ve realized that in order for me to enjoy the experience, be proud of the work I create, and follow the timeslots I have available to use each day, it would need to be broken down into three days.

Be honest with yourself and if you need to take breaks, take them. Just make sure that you’ve scheduled time for it.

3) Define an idea of what you want to accomplish or excel at

After we’ve defined the time we have available to use and know exactly how we’d like to work, now you need to know what to work on. If you don’t know where to start that is perfectly fine. Use the time you’ve allocated to do some research.

I had to take a break from writing my book because I wanted to first understand the whole self-publishing process. Strategy is very important to me and I needed to first develop a strategy that covered the process from writing to marketing. But that’s just me. Very result-orientated. You don’t need to go through this level of detail but if you don’t know what you’d like to accomplish, start with some research.




4) Define one specific immediate goal you can obtain – don’t think about anything else, plans change all the time

After you’ve defined your goal you need to look at it again. Split it in half. Make it smaller. Something that is tangible and specific. And don’t think about anything else.

Going back to my book example, now all I care about are the words on the page, finishing my story. Once I’m done I’ll think about the strategy I created and all the steps I’d like to take before printing out a mock copy of my book. However, as of right now, those items do not matter to me in the slightest.

Become laser-focused on this one specific goal. It should be the only thing that matters to you in this world. Sure that’s a slight exaggeration but only slightly.

5) Put this task into your calendar where you’ve defined the free time

Remember that time you’ve freed up on your schedule? Well, it’s time to dedicate it to your goal. To that specific task, you’ve decided to work on.

If you haven’t already, get an agenda or a planner and start jotting this down. My personal favorite is google calendar. It allows you to color code your calendar, it’s easy to use, and you can take it anywhere with you.

Also here’s a piece of advice for you, be consistent. At least to the best of your ability. Try not to spend three hours working on your goal once a week. The only way for you to build a habit is to have a level of consistency.

6) Setup your workspace for success

You’re not entirely ready to work and roll. Make sure you know where you work best. Are you someone that needs to be alone in a room? Maybe you can only work from your desktop? Having an idea of what kind of workspace you need, keeps you motivated and that is imperative.

The last thing you want is to be ready to work but you can not find a quiet room in your house or your laptop is dead and you can only work from that device. It’s fine to have a preference. It’s actually encouraged. Just make sure it’s available for the times you allotted. Otherwise, you need to find another time or another place.




7) Forget about it until it’s time to work on it

Sometimes we think about something so much that we feel like we’re working on it. And sometimes this thought process really dissuades us from actively working on what we set out to do because it either raises fears or feels like the thought of it, is enough work. Don’t do that. Make sure to make the time and space to disconnect.

You are a whole human being and sometimes we need to step away from things in order to feel refreshed and inspired.

Also from a perspective of efficiency, it’s completely unsustainable because you’re not a robot. Sure you can make the argument that you live and dream this goal and that matters to you. But then my question is what have you been able to complete and are you proud of it thus far?

If you’re happy with how you’re moving forward then keep going. But if you’re like me, at the beginning of this post, and not focusing any time on actually taking action, then stop it. Stop it right now.

8) Be protective of who you share your professional development with

Our friends mean well or at least I hope so. Make sure that as you go through this process you try to protect yourself.

Constructive criticism is important but it shouldn’t influence your goals. People are quick to judge and share their opinions with you and there’s a time and a place for it. Personally, I’ve had many moments where I share something with someone and then they actively begin to try to tell me the best course to take. On an activity, they’re not participating in. They mean well but it’s kind of annoying how much people love to tell others what they should be doing.

Another reason why you may want to be protective is that it makes you vulnerable and not everyone deserves to hear your story. Make sure that sharing your information is a privilege, never feel like you’re lucky to have someone to listen to you. People need to earn a piece of your heart.

9) Repeat this process until it’s complete

Now it’s a rinse-and-repeat process until you’ve conquered all the pieces of your goal. And once you reach your goal you do some more research and decide what you’d like to focus on next.




This post was all about professional development and the bad azz items you need to include in your goal plan.

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Categories: All Blogs, Professional

7 Life-saving Questions to Ask Professional Jobs when Interviewing

Professional Jobs

Unfortunately, you don’t always know how professional a job is until you start working there. However, there are a few questions you can ask to help uncover the truth. And this post will give you those specific 7 questions. The 7 life-saving questions to ask professional jobs when interviewing.

Nothing beats working in a company that has a good employee culture, a strong infrastructure, and room for growth. The only problem is no company will advertise all of its weaknesses when recruiting. Sure you can do some research but there’s nothing like hearing the truth from the horse’s mouth.

I’ve worked in a ton of different environments and within different industries. If there’s one thing I know how to do now – it’s calling “BS”. Please remember when you’re interviewing for a job it’s a two-way street. You’re interviewing your future employers as much as they’re interviewing you.

Asking the right questions can save you from walking into a job that has a bad employee culture, no foundation, and no room to grow.

This post is all about professional jobs and 7 questions to keep in your back pocket when interviewing.

Professional Jobs

Professional Jobs

1) How long has your team been together? Who’s been here the longest and who’s the newest?

Finding out the turnover rate for a future employer is extremely important. Sure you could find this one out by watching job ads and seeing which companies have a revolving door. However, it’s not always that obvious. Sometimes there’s a high turnover rate because the company hires more than they need. Then they perform a bunch of layoffs. It could also be that you’re applying to work for a manager that’s not very good.

Either way, ask how long the team has been together. It can give you a clue about what your future employer’s situation will be like. Also, you can tell a lot by how long people are with a team. If everyone on the team has been there less than five years it’s concerning. Usually, 5 – 10 years is how long it takes to move on to a more prominent role, and sometimes that’s outside of your immediate team. If someone has been there more than 10 years ask what their position is and if you’ll be working with them. If the person has been there for over 10 years and is not one of the principal leaders on the team, that can be an indication that there’s a good employee culture but no room for growth.

2) Where do you see this company and your team in the next 5 years?

Here’s another question that will lead to a bit more digging. If you’re applying for a startup see if you can define if expansion or having a solid infrastructure is more important to them. If their focus is on growth and you’re applying for a startup then run. It sounds like you’ll find yourself doing a few jobs to keep up with the demand. Unless that’s what you want to do, that could also be a tactic, but then you’ll probably want to gain as much experience as you can for the next two to three years and then leave.

If you’re applying for a job that oversees brand partnerships then get an idea of the kinds of brands they work with and who they’d like to work with in the future. See if their taste matches yours and if what they have to say excites you.

Ultimately if you’re not excited by what they say, then you probably don’t want to spend your time trying to grow there.

3) Do team trainings or off-sites occur regularly?

Do you want to work in a stale environment where everyone is following historic processes? Most likely not. There are a lot of advancements in every industry thanks to technology. If the team you’re trying to join doesn’t offer these kinds of opportunities and doesn’t continually work to better themselves, then you’re applying for a job that will eventually go out of business.

Think of the companies that made the leap to e-commerce way too late in the game, where are they now? It would be best if you always looked into getting some training. It could act as a form of security. And if the company doesn’t offer it, then that’s alarming.

Also, see if off-sites occur regularly. Offsites are when a team gets together to talk about the advancements in their space, brainstorm about potential opportunities and develop strategies or plans of action. If you’re applying for a large company then it could also perform as a networking opportunity. If a company doesn’t run these kinds of events, they either do not care about their employee culture or they can’t afford it. Two minor red flags.

4) How has your team’s work been valued in the past?

Do not find yourself in a position where your team is not respected. Where you’re not given the resources you need. And one where your opportunities to collaborate with members of other teams are limited to nonexistent.

I’ve been in positions where my boss was always creating and pushing for our projects to be accepted by the larger departments and in turn, they would recreate what we had accomplished and call it their own. This left you with no room to develop, wasted your time because your work was barely acknowledged, and led to tensions between the different working relationships you were a part of.

I’ve also been in positions where your work has been shared with the larger team, and you have the opportunity to become a subject matter expert and take the lead on projects.

Those are two completely different work dynamics that you want to be aware of when entering a new space. Also if you’re not working based on commission it’s important to understand how you could financially benefit from your work in the long run. Does your work influence your bonus or your promotion salary?

5) What benefits does the role offer?

The beautiful thing about having a job is being able to provide for yourself and your loved ones. As someone who grew up with no health insurance or any understanding of retirement accounts, I value them tremendously.

Ask about your potential employer’s 401k plan. Is there one available to new employees? Does the company offer a match? What’s the vesting period? Vesting refers to the amount of time you have to stay with a company before you can pull out the company match from your 401k and roll it over to a future job. Lastly, ask how long you need to work there before you receive these benefits. If they don’t offer a 401k, then you want to make sure you make enough to at least max out the Roth IRA for yourself. The current contribution limit is $6,500 if you’re single and under 59.5.

You’ll also need health insurance. I suggest not accepting a job if health insurance is not available to you. Health insurance is very expensive and very necessary to have.

6) Can you show me examples of what the team has created in the past?

This is sort of an undercover question. If you ask for examples of what’s been created and they reference materials that were not created in the past year, then the company you’re interviewing for is more concerned with maintaining what they’ve done in the past than creating something new.

It means there are some obstacles you are not seeing. These barriers can include that their competitors are beating them, your team doesn’t have the time or resources needed and spend the majority of their time performing admin work, or they currently don’t have the talent to create fresh products or services. All of which are red flags.

You want to work for a company that is always striving to become better and has examples of how their succeeding in their space. Only in the movies does a total newbie come in and completely change the company. You need a team of people to make things happen.

7) What do I need to accomplish within my first year here in order to be considered for a promotion?

It is completely justified to think about step 2, before starting step 1. Sometimes we become shy and don’t want to advocate for ourselves. If you don’t advocate for yourself, you will only be able to react to what’s being given to you instead of making things happen for yourself.

I’ve worked in companies where people complained about their lack of opportunities but never ask what they need to do to be considered for something new. They spend their lives complaining. Don’t do that to yourself. You should ask from the beginning what your career trajectory could look like and what they expect from you. Then you can measure your value and see if you’re really being taken advantage of.

Also, you want to be reasonable with the expectations you set for yourself. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how hard you work. Your employer may only offer promotions after someone’s been in a position for more than a certain period of time. Make sure your expectations align with theirs.

This post was all about professional jobs, examples, and questions to ask when interviewing for a job.

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